Negative feelings? Get rid of them! You won't benefit from them.

During this week at the morning travellings to my office I was paying attention to the negative thoughts which were penetrating my mind and spoiling my mood. These were thoughts about different problems and fears. But nothing really bad had happened before this week and I haven’t anticipated anything really bad in the nearest future. It were just fears connected with

Feeling an employee online

There was a period in my life when I was keen on using dating websites for getting acquainted with girls.

Not much time passed before I became pretty skillful at using internet instruments for “feeling” girls online.  By reading personal information which a girl left at her webpage of the website, by studying her pictures, by chatting with her with ICQ, I constructed her image in my mind which was very close to reality. That was of great use to me because when we first met

People are curious, thanks God. How can you benefit?

If I say that the next video will hold your attention to its completion will you be curious to watch it? Do you want to know what is there? I bet you doJ Don’t hurry up to push the play button.

Keep in mind this feeling. If you push the play button

Why is it not enough for you to know only one language

“English will be the only language in the world. I shouldn’t study any other language. Why should I? Everybody will speak English and it is enough for me”, said one of my former colleagues.  Do you also think so? Forget it.

English is the main language but

The foundation stone of value creation

How do people find out that something is valuable for them? 

Let’s look into a primal tribe. Simple examples are often helpful for deep understanding of the subject. A savage is thirsty. Water is a value for him in any case. You have some water in your house. But your water doesn’t represent any value for him because the savage doesn’t know about its existence.       

We don’t value anything before we learn about its existence.

Let’s move on. We find a sturdy stick and sharpen one of its ends. We show it to a savage. It is not a real value for him yet. Maximum that can be expected is his

Some patterns don't change over time or wisdom from the past

One of the most prominent thinkers of the 18^th century, Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield (mostly known for his "Letters to his son") made multiple intriguing observations concerning people’s conduct in the society. I’d say many of his thoughts answer the question about how to be valuable for the people you are interested in (i.e. your target audience). 

I’d like to place here some of the most valuable quotes from “Letters to his son”.